Wow, can you believe it’s the 1st of August already, crazy.
Anyway, back to business and date night’s. I don’t know about you but with one of us working long hours and then the weekend being used to see friends and family, my husband and I rarely find time to have a night to ourself doing something different or special. Yes, we have the night’s in watching television but that’s not really quality time as you get so engrossed with the programme you don’t talk and so I wouldn’t class that as a date.
At the beginning of the year I decided that we would do one thing each month that was new, interesting, just the two of us and exciting. I think we managed a couple of planned trips and then it tailed off. The day’s, week’s, month’s just fly by and before you know it the diary is full and the date night’s are back to non-existent.
I follow Shannon Brown’s blog http://shannonbrown.typepad.com/life_in_general/ and she did the most wonderful thing for her husband as a present. She created an envelope for each 12 months of the year and inside them thought of and created a special date to go on, something to enjoy together,and away from the everyday routine. Some of them are quite simple, some more elaborate and I think it’s great. Click on the picture below to see how she created each envelope and for ideas.
I can imagine you thinking oh my goodness, what a lot of planning/work involved, or I’m not creative enough to make this. I can see where your coming from but I’m going to give it a try giving myself some time, 5 months in fact as I know it will take me ages and at least there is no rush (talk about planning). This is a lovely idea but I could see it getting expsensive so not all of the dates need to cost something, go to a museum or on a picnic and you don’t need to pay for everything in advance, its the idea and thought that is in each envelope that counts.
Annoyingly, my husband reads this blog so will see what is in store for him, but hopefully he will forget and at least he wont know whats in each envelope as that’s where the real surprise is anyway. Also, I don’t know about your husband/boyfriend but mine always prefers a doing present rather than an object, maybe it’s a man thing or just mine, so this is just perfect. I can’t wait, let the planning and creative me come out!